Review of
Stitches: A Handbook On Meaning, Hope and
Repair, by Anne Lamott ISBN 9781594632587
Four out of five stars
Making the best of time passages
While time goes
slow when you are young, it seems to fly when you are a busy adult. To nearly
everyone, it seems that decades pass before you realize it. This book is about taking
a few pauses in your life in order to properly process what has taken place.
One specific
item mentioned several times is a top worn by a dear friend of the author. It
was an attractive top that the author began wearing when the friend grew
seriously ill, and she kept it after the friend died. Since she wore it
frequently, it began to wear out and rather than throw it away, she stitched it
up. Hence, the name of the book. There is also mention of the curtains that the
author’s dog managed to rip up with its claws.
This is a fast,
yet purposeful book. It is about dealing with loss, how we manage or fail to
cope with the consequences of the expression of mortality in the people around
us. It would be incorrect to call it uplifting, the best word is that it is a
sturdy prop as you continue to live through what are the normal crises of life.